Aku dan Pendampingku

Aku tidaklah suka berada dalam keadaan marah
Kerana syaitonnirrojim yang mendampingiku adalah berpangkat tertinggi...
Begitu juga malaikat yang mulia menjagaku dan terus menjaga sehingga syaiton pendamping kemarahan itu merasa terseksa...
Tapi jangan dilupa pendamping keduaku
Pendamping yang sangat kutakuti...
Iaitu nafsu...kerana dia adalah pecahan diriku 
Yang senantiasa terdedah kepada pendamping utama...
Maka kuingatkan mereka-mereka
Yang juga punya pendamping sepertiku
Agar berwaspada
Kerana aku juga sangat berwaspada
Agar kita tidak bertemu
Atau ditemukan
KepadaMu Ya Rabb
Kupohon terus diberi kekuatan
Membiarkan dan meramaikan para makaikat menjagaku
Agar ku tetap dicintai oleh Tuhanku

~mizzshafa~

Matang, Otak dan Sentap

Ada sesetengah orang ni
Aku mintak dua perkara sahaja
Tak banyak, cuma dua...
Pertama, kalau usia makin meningkat
Tolonglah matang...
Kedua, kalau bercakap
Tolonglah pakai otak
Kalau ada salah satu pun cukup
Aku terima seadanya...
Tapi kalau seiring
Dua-dua pun kau tak ada,
Aku sentap...
Ya...sesetengah orang sahaja
Kerana aku tidak memaksa
Untuk semua kena terasa...

~mizzshafa~

Wacana Transformasi Ummah: Isu Seksualiti~notes by Wardina Safiyyah

Dua tahun lepas, iaitu 2011 (tapi saya tak ingat bulan berapa), negara kita dikejutkan dengan satu isu keterbukaan iaitu event "Seksualiti Merdeka". Sebenarnya saya dah lama dengar pertubuhan ni (or whatever yang orang panggil la) cuma jadi kecoh tahun lepas sebab benda-benda macam ni cuba dipolitikkan atau apa2 saja lah. Saya tak mahu judge ataupun menyokong. Saya juga bukan nak mengulas pasal Seksualiti Merdeka ni. Cuma saya nak kongsikan satu forum yang telah diadakan bersempena dengan isu ini. Forum ini bertajuk Wacana Transformasi Ummah: Isu Seksualiti. Saya sendiri tidak berkesempatan untuk menghadiri forum tersebut, tetapi saya sangat bersyukur apabila selebriti Muslimah kita iaitu Wardina Safiyyah telah meminjamkan "Take away notes"nya untuk dikongsikan bersama. Setelah mendapat kebenaran beliau, maka saya kongsikan nota ringkas berkenaan dengan forum ini.

1.Always be open to discussion and be prepared to LISTEN to others that do not have similar views than you

2. To those who have sinned, don't be just content by CONDEMNING them

3 LBGT tetap Haram walau apa pun justifikasi. Gerakan mempromosi harus ditentang tetapi, berlembutlah dgn INDIVIDU.

4. Always have a NON JUDGMENTAL approach no matter who you are, with whoever you're dealing with

5.Hawa nafsu tak patut dipersalahkan 100% kerana itulah juga yg mnjdkan kita khalifah ..

6: Jangan percaya LBGT itu "diwarisi" - study has been criticized. Is incest genetic? Murderous genetic?

7: DO something instead of only condemning!

8: Manusia perlu diperkukuhkan akidah iaitu kognitifnya dahulu barulah kita boleh merubah tingkahlaku

9: Apabila ada "lintasan perasaan" yg tdk baik, sedarlah ianya CUMA lintasan perasaan sahaja. Usah dilayan & disuburkan.

10: Bagi mereka yg 'mudah' untk terjebak dan TIDAK melakukannya ganjarannya lebih besar di sisi Allah begitulah sebaliknya

Kalau korang perasan, point2 di atas tu tidak suruh kita menyokong, tetapi tidak bermakna kita boleh mengkeji, menghina, apatah lagi menilai mereka dengan sesuka hati! Tapi, masalahnya masyarakat Malaysia ni memang suka nak menilai dan menghukum orang. Ya, diorang memang buat benda-benda yang dimurkai Allah, tapi kita sebagai manusia, yang juga umat Islam, sepatutnya membantu menyedarkan mereka, bukannya caci maki, keji ataupun yang sewaktu dengannya. Kalau tak mampu membantu secara terang-terangan, doakanlah untuk mereka kerana doa kita untuk saudara muslim yang lain adalah sangat afdal dan insya Allah dimakbulkan. Oleh itu, tepuk dada, tanya iman! :)

P/s: Artikel ini juga boleh dibaca di mizzshafa.blogspot.com

Love, love and love...


Brothers & Sisters, let me share with you a touching love story that I received from someone through my personal email a few years ago...
The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse, retorted, "Maybe, it was a mistake for us to be together! You were never my missing rib!" Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while. He regretted what he said but words spoken are like thrown away water, you can never take it back. With tears, she went home to pack her things and was determined in breaking-up. Before she left the house, "If I'm really not your missing rib, please let me go." She continued, "It is less painful this way. Let us go on our separate ways and search for our own partners."
Five years went by...
He never remarried but he had tried to find out about her life indirectly. She had left the country and back. She had married a foreigner and divorced. He felt anguished that she never waited for him. In the dark and lonely night; he lit his cigarette and felt the lingering ache in his heart. He couldn't bring himself to admit that he was missing her. One day, they finally met. At the airport, a place where there were many reunions and good byes. He was going away on a business trip. She was standing there alone, with just the security door separating them. She smiled at him gently.
Boy: How are you?
Girl: I'm fine. How about you? Have you found your missing rib?
Boy: No.
Girl: I'll be flying to New York in the next flight.
Boy: I'll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back. You know my number. Nothing has changed.
With a smile, she turned around and waved good bye.
Good bye...
One week later, he heard of her death. She had perished in New York, in the event that shocked the world.
Midnight, once again, he lit his cigarette. And like before, he felt the lingering ache in his heart. He finally knew. She was the missing rib that he had carelessly broken.
Sometimes, people say things out of moments of fury. Most often than not, the outcome could be disastrous and detrimental. We vent our frustrations 99% at our loved ones. And even though we know that we ought to "think twice and act wisely", it's often easier said than done.
Things happen each day, many of which are beyond our control. Let us treasure every moment and everyone in our lives.
Tomorrow may never come. Give and accept what you have today
Now, let me share with you quotes from unknown authors, so that we can think deeply what love is about...and something for us to think about...
"The measure of love is when you love without measure. In life, there is very rare chances that you'll meet the person you love and love you in return. So, once you have it don't ever let go, the chance might never come your way again"
"You can't make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is upt to the person to realise your worth"
"It's better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one you love because of pride. We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give"
"When you truly care for someone, you don't look for faults, you don't look for answers, you don't look for mistakes. Instead, you fight the mistakes, you accept the faults and you overlook the excuses"
Is that amazing huh??? :)
P/s: you also can read this article at mizzshafa.blogspot.com

Lakukan saja...Hadapi ia...

Apabila anda merasa berdebar
Diselang-seli gundah-gulana,
Mintalah kepada Dia...
Sesudah selesai kamu meminta
Jangan kamu lupa segala suruhanNya...
Sesudah itu, bertawakallah
Dan akhir sekali, sambil meminjam kata-kata si putih...
Just Do It and Deal with it!

~MizzShafa~

Hidup dan Lukisan

Hidup itu umpama lukisan
Lukisan
Corak
Warna-warni
Adalah pilihan kita
Kita adalah pelukis
Menentukan apa yang dilukis
Menentukan susun atur lukisan
Menentukan corak
Menentukan warnanya
Pabila lukisan itu siap, kita bahagia...
Begitulah juga dengan kehidupan...
Maka, lukislah dengan bijak
Kerana kita adalah pelukis
Dan...lukisan itu kita yang punya...

~MizzShafa~

I am Me

I dont't want perfect
I want real
Because
This is the way I live
Judge me
And I will prove you wrong
Because I am original
And.....I love me

~MizzShafa~

Mengah

Biar mengah kerana kalah
Daripada mengah kerana mengalah
Apa beza kalah dan mengalah?
Ya...memang ada bezanya
Kalah ialah apabila kamu sudah mencuba
Mengalah ialah kamu belum mencuba...
Dan sesungguhnya...mengah kerana mengalah adalah lebih perit daripada mengah kerana kalah
Dan lebih parah dari mengah kerana sakit
~MizzShafa~